That's right, you don't know. He was your first boyfriend, Kurt. I've been where you are now. I didn't think I'd ever be able to fall in love with anyone the way I did Blaine either.

[Because there's only so far his sympathy will stretch. Now he gets why Rachel couldn't stand to be around him for long after him and Blaine left each other. He's kind of a downer. Maybe a little tough love is exactly what he needs.]